Christy and I became unlikely friends about a year ago. It started when our sons were born on the same day 2 years ago, when we had the same doctor and raced to deliver first. I won, but only because mine was pre-scheduled and didn't involve pushing 10 pounds out of my secret garden. We cry and roll with the punches together, taking turns talking the other off of the ledge. She shrugs most of the "big things" in life off, and knows when she's in over her head for everything else. She dishes and receives sarcasm like it's her love language, and we don't care what you say about sarcasm not being a blessing from the Lord. Check out the way Christy handles motherhood!
What is your motherhood mantra?
I have no idea. Probably "it's not that big of a deal." Relax and take time to gain perspective.
What is the best advice you could give a first time mom?
Find what works best for you & stick to it. Ask around, read articles, but be flexible to find your own routine.
What's the most annoying advice you've received?
Anything a total stranger thought it was their business to tell me.
What is your favorite thing about your kids?
Watching their personalities develop. They are all so different from each other. I love Katelynn's creativity & wisdom, Julia's free spirit & kind heart, Michael is a natural performer & go getter and Tyler is a super laid back milk junkie.
What's one thing you wish you could tell the "newborn mom" version of yourself?
Don't be selfish. Life isn't all about you anymore. The sooner you embrace this truth the sooner life will be amazing. Be fully present & enjoy each phase because time goes by so fast.
Christy, I love you and your grit. And your gusto. And your willingness to hunker down and weather the storm. For owning your circus and your monkeys. I admire it now and forever.
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